I tend to like the kinds of afternoons that quietly derail the rest of the day.

A quick lunch somehow turns into cocktails.
The cocktails become “we should probably be responsible.”
Neither of us is particularly committed to that idea.

I value chemistry, comfort, emotional intelligence, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously. Bonus points if you know how to flirt naturally. If not, don’t worry- I’m more than capable of carrying us both conversationally until you settle in.

Whether we’re escaping for a long lunch downtown, disappearing into a beautiful hotel for the afternoon, or temporarily neglecting our responsibilities together somewhere in another city, I prefer experiences that feel natural, playful, and dangerously easy to settle into.

The longer we spend together, the less things feel structured and the more they start feeling suspiciously fun.

Which, historically speaking, is where my decision-making begins to deteriorate.

I’m equally capable of discussing life over espresso martinis and accidentally convincing us both that extending the date is somehow the logical and emotionally mature choice.

If you’re looking for warmth, wit, affection, genuine chemistry, and a woman who cleans up beautifully but may also become a terrible influence by hour three, I think we’ll get along very well.

For screening details and arranging our first date, please visit my Etiquette page.